Online
Dating Magazine (ODM) recently had the opportunity to chat
with Mindy Stricke and ask her several questions regarding
profile photos.
ODM:
It's always nice to see an original concept turn
into a business. In this case, you've taken the idea of photography
and have built a unique business concept around creating profile
shots for people who use online dating services. How did you
come up with the idea to formulate your business around profile
shots and what did it take to successfully implement your
concept?
Mindy
Stricke: Last Fall, I took a portrait of one of my
friends who was using Nerve.com after she had mentioned to
me that she wasn't getting very much response to her profile,
which she had spent a lot of time composing. Her original
photo was small and slightly blurry, but it was the best one
that she had. After she posted her new photo, a black and
white casual shot in the park, she was getting an overwhelming
number of responses every day, dozens and dozens. I had really
enjoyed taking the photo of her and seeing her so happy, and
I had already noticed how bad in general most people's photos
are on the online dating sites. It became obvious that there
is a great need out there for a better photo online, and the
seed for SingleShots was born.
After
I had the idea for SingleShots I spent a lot of time doing
research into the online dating world and figuring out the
best way to set up the business. I decided to specialize in
shooting singles because I realized early on that it called
for a special approach. The last time most adults have sat
for a portrait was senior year in high school, and even then
it probably wasn't even that great. I make people feel really
comfortable and as result can get a great candid that looks
like their friend took the photo, if their friend happened
to be a really good photographer!
ODM:
When you look at profile pictures that people put
online, what are some of the general problems that you see
with these everyday photos?
Mindy
Stricke: There are numerous problems that I spot
with everyday photos. One of the biggest problems is ones
that are taken much too far away from the subject. It's hard
to see someone's face and really get an idea of what he or
she looks like, especially because the size of the photos
on the dating sites are not that big.
Other
major problems involve light that creates harsh shadows on
people's faces which is very unflattering. The worst time
to take a photo is in sunlight during midday. Or the photo
was taken while out at night, with the only light being used
a very small flash, making someone look like a deer in the
headlights.
Many people,
especially men, wear sunglasses or hats that hide their faces.
They think they look cool, but looking at them it's hard not
to think that they're hiding something.
Then,
of course, there are the classic problems: a friend is cut
out of the frame, the photo is blurry or out of focus, the
person looks really stiff or has red eye, or the photo is
out of date. There are myriad of problems with bad online
dating photos.
ODM:
So what do you do to fix these problems?
Mindy
Stricke: There are many ingredients that go into
taking a great photo. In terms of technical choices, I do
a variety of things to make a good photo of someone, including
getting closer to the subject, using flattering, soft lighting,
and shooting a lot of photos from many different angles.
And then
there are the intangibles. In the photos, I try to capture
people's personalities as much as I can. There's a huge difference
between a photo that looks posed and stiff and one that is
relaxed. The photo on a personal site is the entryway to getting
to know a whole person, and I try to capture that in the photo
as much as possible. I do this by spending some time with
each person, and then continuing to talk with them during
the shoot. I shoot a lot, and I pause and chat a lot during
shooting, to take the pressure off. It feels more like hanging
out with a friend. People walk out of a SingleShots shoot
telling me how they usually hate to have their picture taken,
but that this was really fun and painless. I think that ends
up coming across in the photographs.
ODM:
If I was to participate in one of these sessions,
what's the process that I'd have to go through after arranging
an appointment? How would the process end with my new SingleShots
photos online?
Mindy
Stricke: After making an appointment for a SingleShots
shoot, a client meets me at my studio, where we talk for a
little while about what kind of photo they're looking for,
what their experience has been dating online, and generally
getting to know each other. The rapport between the subject
and me is crucial to getting them to feel relaxed. There's
an implicit trust that has to be there between us, which will
directly contribute to getting an excellent photograph.
After
talking, we'll do the shoot. Since I shoot digitally, I can
see how it's going while the person is still there, and try
lots of different things. I shoot fast, so the whole process
takes about a half an hour. A few days later, the person gets
a link to a web page with all of their proofs. I always encourage
them to get second opinions from family and friends.
Clients
choose two photos that I lightly retouch and resize for the
online dating services, and then I email them the finished
product. They can either upload the photo to the dating service
or have me do it for them.
People
are really loving the photographs, and have told me that they're
really happy to finally have a flattering photo that reflects
who they are to put up on a site. One woman wrote after seeing
her proofs: "The photos are fabulous! I always considered
myself unphotogenic and you have captured me beautifully."
Many people
are getting a huge difference in response to their profiles
once they change their photo. Amazingly, one client put the
new photo up on Match and received over 1200 hits and dozens
of responses! Not everyone has received this kind of response,
especially because they also have to write a good profile,
but it helps. Most people's photos on the dating sites are
not very good.
ODM:
Surveys show that a lot of emphasis is put on looks
with online dating services and it's already been proven that
profiles with pictures get more responses than those without.
What tips do you have for people wanting to put photos online
that help with the response rate?
Mindy
Stricke: Obviously, the first thing is to put up
a great photo of yourself! If you can't get a professional
to do it, get a friend and do your own photo shoot. Have them
get closer to you, shoot at the very beginning or end of the
day for nice light, or in the shade. And shoot a lot of photos
to ensure you get a good one. Once you have a good, accurate
portrait, you can put other photos of you doing different
things or with different people as the additional ones, to
round you out.
After
that, spend time on your profile. I don't specialize in helping
people with their profiles, but there are many sites that
do, including ProfileDoctor.com, and personaladmakeover.com.
ODM:
When do you think a person should use a black and
white photo versus a color photo?
Mindy
Stricke: I think it all depends on personal taste.
Black and white is beautiful, and has a more artistic feel
to it. In general, black and white makes people look really
smooth, including skin. Of course, some people think black
and white looks too 'slick'. A lot of it depends on on how
the photo is taken though. A casual black and white photo
is very different than a glamorous one.
ODM:
Thank you for taking the time to share some of your
insight into profile photos with our readers, Mindy. Any final
thoughts?
Mindy
Stricke: If you're going to put time and energy into
meeting someone online, take the same time to get a great
photo. There are elements of a high quality photo that catch
your eye and make you look twice, which goes beyond what you
look like in the photo. The way the light hits your hair,
or the half smile on your face that makes someone want to
know more about you. A good photo makes you ask questions-who
is this person, what is she like?
All people
who are dating online know that when they're looking at potential
matches, the photo is the most important element. A good photo
can be the hint of the chemistry that's to come. |